Every family has their own unique way of spending the holidays. For many, that includes attending a religious service on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, but that isn’t true for everyone. Many families focus their Christmases around bonding with one another rather than religion. As a kid, my family attended religious services on Christmas Eve. But, as I grow older, my family has stopped attending church and begun spending that time on Christmas Eve socializing instead. This new break in the holiday stress became one of my favorite parts of the entire holiday season.
Christmas is widely perceived as the most stressful time of the year; money is tight, the days are short, and, worst of all, it’s cold outside. However, having a no-stress Christmas with your family can be the key. For last year’s Christmas, the Gilberts spent Christmas with each other — playing games, eating, and exchanging presents rather than going to a religious service.
“It’s more of a family thing, spending time together,” said sophomore Finn Gilbert. “Even though we are religious, it’s not really about that.”
Last Christmas, senior Ra’Myah Askerneese spent Christmas cruising through the Caribbean Sea. For this year’s Christmas, she’s travelling to Cabo.
“My [Christmas] gift is a trip to Cabo, but it’s not until later in the year. So, we’re just going to open presents and hang out [on Christmas day],” said Askerneese.
Ramyah and her family celebrate the holidays without religion by simply spending time together and making each other happy. Christmas morning in her house is full of excitement concerning the exchange of gifts.
There are many holiday traditions without religious ties. A fan favorite tradition is an Elf on the Shelf; after Thanksgiving, a miniature elf from the North Pole is sent to your house to keep an eye on everyone inside and report back to Santa. This creates a fun tradition for many, waking up each morning to see what mischief the elf was up to the night before, and where they have landed for the day ahead.
“My favorite Christmas tradition is the Elf on the Shelf,” said Askerneese. “[My elf’s] name is Jelly Bean.”
Another favorite tradition is a classic recipe made year after year. Personally, my family makes ravioli every Christmas. Making or eating food together is a great way to spend time with loved ones.
“My mom makes really good lasagna, and we just hang out,” said Gilbert.
The holidays can be stressful; sometimes, the best remedy for stress is to spend Christmas relaxing and enjoying the company of your loved ones.
